Everyday we come across people who say we are lazy and we can't achieve anything. People say if one is lazy he can't do things in time and he will possess several bad things like lack of time management delay in making decisions and are really bad in doing things or in executing work. But when I've attended a simple session on personality development I had a new experience. The speaker was showing laziness as a boon, first i was a bit shocked by this man's speech because never in my life I heard a man speaking about the advantages of laziness.
I'll just mention his views on laziness where he mentioned several Scientists as lazy people. He says "If you are a lazy man you should feel great because there are several people in this world who belong to the category of laziness."
"All those people who are involved in developing something and inventing something are lazy people because they want to make their life simpler and considerably easy. When one invented Television lazy man invented remote control, when calculations are really complicated other invented calculator which changed its form to a computer." He adds.
So it is really optimistic to be a lazy person but what differs you from the other is your confidence and your style of projecting the work. It is a notable fact that delivering the things in time is must so our laziness must not be problematic to others so being in time or delivering things in time is a simple change which you must make in your life style, and never take things carelessly because carelessness in not a part of laziness. The prime objective of laziness is to enjoy life in a simpler form but not to complicate it with carelessness. So enjoy the laziness.
Tuesday, November 25, 2008
Monday, November 17, 2008
Writing- Blogs, Stories or anything
Several across the world are wonderful writers and are really great in expressing their views. William Shakespeare is the King of them and is undoubtedly a genius and he touched several hearts with his literary wonders. But if you give his writings to a kindergarten student he will just say “what is this.” He loves his rhymes itself and Shakespeare may sound strange to him. So what matters here is not your grip on the language but your way of expressing ideas. It is proved that several people who are well versed in writing skills fail in attracting people and in making their impression on the readers. This happens as they use several jargons, cants and slang where they fail in reaching the pulse of a common individual who has to read their writings. As finish line is the aim for a runner and profit for a business firm, it is a reader for any writer. Because he is the one who appreciate or finds flaws in a writer if writer fail in reaching them he can’t succeed. This happens when readers fail in understanding the writer’s intention where the writer fails in delivering his view and his effort finally ends without any appreciation.
Several people across the globe are having a problem. They feel that lack of writing skills is their great drawback and they end in stopping their passion of expressing their views and ideas. Some among these will really possess excellent ideas. These people do use their common sense and do miracles with their ideology and thinking process because no one can become a genius just by reading books without common knowledge and without knowing about surroundings this will be possible only when you are really open to learn things and when you have the zeal to learn. These people forget a main point of writing which is an idea from which everything will be developed. If you are a common human being and if you understand the same common man you can create wonders in writing.
If a person is having these capabilities of using common sense can really do wonders in his life and can be a great writer.
When Beethoven can do miracles in music without thinking about his blindness why not you / us? Though we have everything in a perfect way we love to get glued to our chairs so called giving up attitude. Because of this attitude we give our fellow human beings a chance chase and cross us in the race where we stand last.
What I wish to say is do express your views and never let your ideas to go vain because the love towards writing really develops and teaches you several things about you when you start writing. Do write something and show it to your well wishers and ask for their views and you continue writing when you get appreciation you'll enjoy it and you'll continue writing because success is the energy drink for everyone to proceed and continue any activity, and your experience adds you several skills. So write as no one is reading. At least write something for your girl or your guy and try to impress them with your thought process.
Write Write and Write.
Anirudh
Several people across the globe are having a problem. They feel that lack of writing skills is their great drawback and they end in stopping their passion of expressing their views and ideas. Some among these will really possess excellent ideas. These people do use their common sense and do miracles with their ideology and thinking process because no one can become a genius just by reading books without common knowledge and without knowing about surroundings this will be possible only when you are really open to learn things and when you have the zeal to learn. These people forget a main point of writing which is an idea from which everything will be developed. If you are a common human being and if you understand the same common man you can create wonders in writing.
If a person is having these capabilities of using common sense can really do wonders in his life and can be a great writer.
When Beethoven can do miracles in music without thinking about his blindness why not you / us? Though we have everything in a perfect way we love to get glued to our chairs so called giving up attitude. Because of this attitude we give our fellow human beings a chance chase and cross us in the race where we stand last.
What I wish to say is do express your views and never let your ideas to go vain because the love towards writing really develops and teaches you several things about you when you start writing. Do write something and show it to your well wishers and ask for their views and you continue writing when you get appreciation you'll enjoy it and you'll continue writing because success is the energy drink for everyone to proceed and continue any activity, and your experience adds you several skills. So write as no one is reading. At least write something for your girl or your guy and try to impress them with your thought process.
Write Write and Write.
Anirudh
Violence- New Passion
Violence-
According to dictionary violence means “The act or an instance of violent action or behavior.”
Violence was evolved when human beings started living on the earth as rulers and dominating creatures. Primitive man had a fear from animals’ weather and a lot of common things which we never think in our day to day life. He then started making a group and he started moving in it. After few days he thought even then he is having fear in him then he made weapons and then he started facing animals that come across, he liked this and he continued in developing several things he made fire he made clothes and he made shelter. In the mean time he went ahead by increasing violent tendencies in him. He was not satisfied and he developed skills of violence and he taught them to his next generation and he taught them to fight to live.
Violence developed to that extent where a common individual made boundaries in making relations and in making boundaries.
Violence is induces into us when we are at an age of months. When a kid falls his parent comes to him and hits the floor in order to make the kid happy, the kid enjoys the scene and the drama which is created over there because he never saw his parent in a heroic situation he loves to feel the same and he continues such practices.
The child now is called the new face of violence. Now violence grows to a school growing child where he learns new violence. He loves the violence over there and he reads violence when he grows, is framed in the format of words he reads them. The epics which we read, the stories which we listen and the movies or plays which we see are filled with violence. So he enjoys violence and he will be having a feel of exhibiting the violent tendencies which are induced in him. Now he searches for a situation to exhibit, now he grows to a college going guy he feels that he is enough matured and he feels every silly incident or difference which he faces as an opportunity to show his power and he turns out to a rebellion. He loves making fights and he loves his injuries and he feels them as the symbols of his heroism.
If situations are helping him he uses his mind in making plots to show his heroism where he involves in street fights with other gangs and he grows in the same. When I met few professional criminals about the crimes which they have committed they came with single answer saying “we did those crimes for pride and we loved doing them and we don’t feel bad for living in these jails for those crimes but we feel bad for loosing those opportunities.”
Every individual comes across these stages but in a different style. If one is not feeling violently then it can be said that there is a problem with him. It can also be said that he is not thinking normally because the other face of violence so called exists in everyone. When your friend gives the same pat when you are serious you blow like an atomic weapon which means you are violent and every conflict that comes between two individuals with so call misunderstanding is because of the ego- the other face of violence. So we live with violence and die with the same feeling, because no one will be happy or satisfied when he lies to death. One feels I would have seen my daughter marriage other feels I would have seen my grand daughters some may think about great grand ones too. So never in our life we are happy and never our ego feels happy and every movement we feel to do something the feel of doing something is the simpler form of violence.
When we are living with violence what is the use of shouting for peace and non violence. Try and use the same power to reduce the poverty and to raise the income standards of the people across globe. So that knowledge of those individuals will be shown a good grounds and they may indirectly help the nations in growing well.
Finally I say:
‘Every individual at some point of life thinks violently and if there is a chance he behaves and still if situation permits he lives violently.’
According to dictionary violence means “The act or an instance of violent action or behavior.”
Violence was evolved when human beings started living on the earth as rulers and dominating creatures. Primitive man had a fear from animals’ weather and a lot of common things which we never think in our day to day life. He then started making a group and he started moving in it. After few days he thought even then he is having fear in him then he made weapons and then he started facing animals that come across, he liked this and he continued in developing several things he made fire he made clothes and he made shelter. In the mean time he went ahead by increasing violent tendencies in him. He was not satisfied and he developed skills of violence and he taught them to his next generation and he taught them to fight to live.
Violence developed to that extent where a common individual made boundaries in making relations and in making boundaries.
Violence is induces into us when we are at an age of months. When a kid falls his parent comes to him and hits the floor in order to make the kid happy, the kid enjoys the scene and the drama which is created over there because he never saw his parent in a heroic situation he loves to feel the same and he continues such practices.
The child now is called the new face of violence. Now violence grows to a school growing child where he learns new violence. He loves the violence over there and he reads violence when he grows, is framed in the format of words he reads them. The epics which we read, the stories which we listen and the movies or plays which we see are filled with violence. So he enjoys violence and he will be having a feel of exhibiting the violent tendencies which are induced in him. Now he searches for a situation to exhibit, now he grows to a college going guy he feels that he is enough matured and he feels every silly incident or difference which he faces as an opportunity to show his power and he turns out to a rebellion. He loves making fights and he loves his injuries and he feels them as the symbols of his heroism.
If situations are helping him he uses his mind in making plots to show his heroism where he involves in street fights with other gangs and he grows in the same. When I met few professional criminals about the crimes which they have committed they came with single answer saying “we did those crimes for pride and we loved doing them and we don’t feel bad for living in these jails for those crimes but we feel bad for loosing those opportunities.”
Every individual comes across these stages but in a different style. If one is not feeling violently then it can be said that there is a problem with him. It can also be said that he is not thinking normally because the other face of violence so called exists in everyone. When your friend gives the same pat when you are serious you blow like an atomic weapon which means you are violent and every conflict that comes between two individuals with so call misunderstanding is because of the ego- the other face of violence. So we live with violence and die with the same feeling, because no one will be happy or satisfied when he lies to death. One feels I would have seen my daughter marriage other feels I would have seen my grand daughters some may think about great grand ones too. So never in our life we are happy and never our ego feels happy and every movement we feel to do something the feel of doing something is the simpler form of violence.
When we are living with violence what is the use of shouting for peace and non violence. Try and use the same power to reduce the poverty and to raise the income standards of the people across globe. So that knowledge of those individuals will be shown a good grounds and they may indirectly help the nations in growing well.
Finally I say:
‘Every individual at some point of life thinks violently and if there is a chance he behaves and still if situation permits he lives violently.’
Thursday, November 13, 2008
Physical Relation Before Marriage
There are several ideas and ideologies on this area. Several people in several countries commit it and few condemn. My step is not giving a conclusion to this question but to make few aware of this scenario which we are adopting.
I will speak regarding this in the perspective of Indians who are much concerned with this topic either directly or indirectly. Physical Relation is a polished form of presentation for the word sex because in India this word is still a marketing tool. It means if a celebrity speaks regarding this simple part of life next day he’ll be flashed in news and in the print media so, sex is better used as physical relation in my country and I’m following that tradition. First I thought of writing the same article with the name ‘Sex before marriage’ but when I took the same option to my friends they simply shouted at me and few were really excited and gave their views. I don’t want to disclose the thing which stopped me to keep the name as sex before marriage, but definitely I’ll show the views of people.
First let’s see the ideas of our good citizens of India. These people say that India is developing and in few years it will cross developed nations, in this process if India adopts developed countries technology and their methodologies these people will be happy saying India is growing rapidly. In the mean process of adopting western principles we are also adopting their style and their habits. But our good people are not happy with this and they say because of these western adoptions our next generation is loosing its values and are going in a bad route.
The ideas of my generation- the generation which is involved in the process of adopting western principles differ with the ideas of the first generation. This generation people easily say one thing that adopting something is no where a mistake because we are really developed because of adopting foreign technology and their principles so there is no sin in adopting their cultures too. Few people of this age say that skin to skin is not a sin because they commit it willingly.
I won’t disclose the names of my friends and few others as they hate popularity. Here I’m mentioning their views and ideas.
When I’ve asked one guy whom I met in my travel told me that “I’m smoking outside and my father is not aware of it in the same manner I’m doing sex so Gharwale will feel that I’m still up to their values. So I’m making them happy and I’m happy in my way of living.” But the girl who was sitting next to us said “a man can manage in and around the home but the same cannot be with a women” which says that she really cares for her world and society and she also said “It is against the society and is also unethical and in my view it’s wrong because for me it’s a pure relation and has to be with life partner itself”
Really both these people come with valid answers and once if you listen to them you’ll fall in the dilemma. I just want to show the both sides of this sword which is the burning topic in a secularist country like India where people believe in fate rather than their abilities.
As said earlier old people and few among the new gen felt that physical relation is a sin and it must be committed only when you are in a state of accepting the person for life time because that is the wonderful relation which bounds a pair for ever.
My Friend said “If you are having good or healthy relation with your partner so there is no need to be this type of relation.”
One well educated man said “It’s a simple experience before getting into real job. Simply like starter before a meal. But, it depends on the persons who are doing it. If both want to have sex before marriage they will enjoy like anything.”
One person of the same cadre and caliber said “I feel at present we are just looking women as a tool to the physical relation but no one is giving importance to her feeling so it’s a bad scenario, where the role of women is being restricted to a toy.”
A college going student came with a new version “In India it is not preferable because of our culture and our environment in which we are bought up but in abroad we can commit it and it is an advance step in love so nothing is wrong in committing.”
Though there are several edges to this sword one being the ethical thinking the other being the modern. Though several oppose this sort of relation the sales of condoms and emergency contraceptive pills are really grooming which says that several people are committing it. The dictionary of so called process was first written in India by name Kamasutra by Vatsayana. This is said to be the book followed by several foreigners. Our knowledge is really flowing across the world but we are still fighting for several silly issues. It is a notable fact that though there are several regulations laid down on the people for not committing it they are committing it because, in the name of regulations people are indirectly raising their curiosity towards sex and when they listen they are automatically curious about trying it in this process of curiosity several teen age individuals are undergoing the process of sex at a very earl age and are falling ill. Physical relation before marriage was really there with Indians from the good olden days. The prime motive is not to stop people committing but to make them aware of sex and its prominence where in we’ll have some change. The next step is really to get adjusted with the present day scenario and to move accordingly. Because if you stay blindly the world will cross you and finally you’ll be the one who become a fool out of the situation.
I will speak regarding this in the perspective of Indians who are much concerned with this topic either directly or indirectly. Physical Relation is a polished form of presentation for the word sex because in India this word is still a marketing tool. It means if a celebrity speaks regarding this simple part of life next day he’ll be flashed in news and in the print media so, sex is better used as physical relation in my country and I’m following that tradition. First I thought of writing the same article with the name ‘Sex before marriage’ but when I took the same option to my friends they simply shouted at me and few were really excited and gave their views. I don’t want to disclose the thing which stopped me to keep the name as sex before marriage, but definitely I’ll show the views of people.
First let’s see the ideas of our good citizens of India. These people say that India is developing and in few years it will cross developed nations, in this process if India adopts developed countries technology and their methodologies these people will be happy saying India is growing rapidly. In the mean process of adopting western principles we are also adopting their style and their habits. But our good people are not happy with this and they say because of these western adoptions our next generation is loosing its values and are going in a bad route.
The ideas of my generation- the generation which is involved in the process of adopting western principles differ with the ideas of the first generation. This generation people easily say one thing that adopting something is no where a mistake because we are really developed because of adopting foreign technology and their principles so there is no sin in adopting their cultures too. Few people of this age say that skin to skin is not a sin because they commit it willingly.
I won’t disclose the names of my friends and few others as they hate popularity. Here I’m mentioning their views and ideas.
When I’ve asked one guy whom I met in my travel told me that “I’m smoking outside and my father is not aware of it in the same manner I’m doing sex so Gharwale will feel that I’m still up to their values. So I’m making them happy and I’m happy in my way of living.” But the girl who was sitting next to us said “a man can manage in and around the home but the same cannot be with a women” which says that she really cares for her world and society and she also said “It is against the society and is also unethical and in my view it’s wrong because for me it’s a pure relation and has to be with life partner itself”
Really both these people come with valid answers and once if you listen to them you’ll fall in the dilemma. I just want to show the both sides of this sword which is the burning topic in a secularist country like India where people believe in fate rather than their abilities.
As said earlier old people and few among the new gen felt that physical relation is a sin and it must be committed only when you are in a state of accepting the person for life time because that is the wonderful relation which bounds a pair for ever.
My Friend said “If you are having good or healthy relation with your partner so there is no need to be this type of relation.”
One well educated man said “It’s a simple experience before getting into real job. Simply like starter before a meal. But, it depends on the persons who are doing it. If both want to have sex before marriage they will enjoy like anything.”
One person of the same cadre and caliber said “I feel at present we are just looking women as a tool to the physical relation but no one is giving importance to her feeling so it’s a bad scenario, where the role of women is being restricted to a toy.”
A college going student came with a new version “In India it is not preferable because of our culture and our environment in which we are bought up but in abroad we can commit it and it is an advance step in love so nothing is wrong in committing.”
Though there are several edges to this sword one being the ethical thinking the other being the modern. Though several oppose this sort of relation the sales of condoms and emergency contraceptive pills are really grooming which says that several people are committing it. The dictionary of so called process was first written in India by name Kamasutra by Vatsayana. This is said to be the book followed by several foreigners. Our knowledge is really flowing across the world but we are still fighting for several silly issues. It is a notable fact that though there are several regulations laid down on the people for not committing it they are committing it because, in the name of regulations people are indirectly raising their curiosity towards sex and when they listen they are automatically curious about trying it in this process of curiosity several teen age individuals are undergoing the process of sex at a very earl age and are falling ill. Physical relation before marriage was really there with Indians from the good olden days. The prime motive is not to stop people committing but to make them aware of sex and its prominence where in we’ll have some change. The next step is really to get adjusted with the present day scenario and to move accordingly. Because if you stay blindly the world will cross you and finally you’ll be the one who become a fool out of the situation.
Wednesday, November 12, 2008
New Writings
I'm going to write a blog after several weeks again. This time i want give my views on topics like Pre MArital Sex, Gun Violence and others. In a day or two i"ll strike with the first.
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